Nice-Nasty

🧄She doesn’t argue.

🧄She seems nice.

🧄Smiles in your face.

🧄She plays innocent.

🧅But ever so quietly, she’s nice nasty.

🧄The camouflaged mean girl.

🧄You see, loud mouthed women who cuss and are bold get criticized for being ghetto and classless. (as they should because this is not the right manners for a woman.)

🧄But you know who is even more vicious than them? The quiet malicious women who ”act innocent” but they show disobedience in a different way.

🧄They know how to quietly ruin a family and any relationship that they encounter. They’re just more sneaky about it.

🧄She wins people’s trust by appearing one way but being another.

🧄These women are very hard to spot because they appear to be so nice.

🧄But if you deal with them long enough, eventually, they will tell on themselves because the nastiness must eventually reveal itself.

🧄You just have to pay attention to terms that they use and energy that they give when you’re speaking about certain topics.

🧄Some of these women are the ones who even go as far as doing magic. May Allah protect and forgive us Aameen 🤲🏼

🧄Now this does not give a pass to the obnoxious ghetto women in the back, rather both the nice nasty girl and the obnoxious women are NOT from women that we should aspire to be.

🧄Yes some women come from very bad upbringing, but it does not give them the right to live like that as adults long-term. When does the accountability to change happen?

🧄And then we wonder why we do not have strong sisterhood bonds or some cannot achieve productive marriages.

🧄Men should not marry these types of women nor should other women fully trust these types of women.

🧄We all need to fear Allaah and do better with whatever we are battling deep down and not take it out on others.

🧄Being nice nasty is very dangerous and it speaks to the diseases of the heart. It breeds low level behavior and dissension.

🧄In the end this woman destroys herself the most. May Allaah guide and bless us all Aameen 🤲🏼

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