✨ You Can Get Him, But Can You Keep Him?

🪤When the courting process between a man and a woman who are interested in marriage begins, there are high emotions involved.

🪤Those feelings and emotions are what we call the “falling in love” stage.

🪤The “high” that you feel during this time is something to be studied because it is such an intense emotion that is hard to explain.

🦋 The butterflies in the stomach.

🦋The giddiness

🦋The happiness

🦋The connection

🦋The floating on air

🦋And so many more feelings involved at this level.

🪤So what happens?

🪤Well, the man and woman get hitched….they get married and these feelings continue to be felt well into the first few months of marriage.

🪤This is what we call the “newlywed stage” of marriage. It’s exciting. It’s refreshing. It’s wonderful.

🪤Until it’s not……

🪤You see, that “high” that people get when they are first getting to know one another is not a feeling that is sustainable without effort.

🪤It is something that now (after marriage) must be worked on and cultivated throughout the entirety of the marriage.

🪤After you fully get to know a person more personally and intimately, you see sides of one another that take away from the ease of falling in love that comes naturally when you first met.

🪤This does not mean that you will never be in love again with your spouse. It just means that you have to make a conscious effort to continuously cultivate that “high” , that love, and those feelings.

🪤And the moment that effort is no longer important to you is the moment that the marriage can become dull and boring. A task, a job.

⛳️It is easy to attract a spouse.

⛳️It is easy to get married.

⛳️It is easy to be sought after and desired.

⛳️But can you keep him after you got him? And can you be kept by him after years of marriage?

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